

LIMITS:
1. Know your limits before you start.
You can take quick decisions because
you know your limits
2. You need them to achieve your goal.
3. How far will I go?
4.
Practise your limits so that you know not to go across them
5. Try to avoid negociations
with people that only think about themselves;
6. How?
* know that you always have
other possibilities; there are other changes around the corner;
* it is even more
important to walk away from a deal than to close a bad deal;
* think about it when
everything is still good not when it is to late;
* don’t think about an alternative
but also about the second and third best;
7. Know what your other options are; with
that list you have nothing to lose;
8. Know what the options of they other party are;
9.
If you don’t find other alternatives, take more time to prepare;
10. What will happen
if...
11. Know how to keep your limits
12. Determine your point of resistance before
crossing the limit.
Let them know before you go or continue.
13. Don’t close in on
yourself; don’t show your limits at the start